Addendum to earlier scowl

And then I noticed a curious thing. Right there, between two slabs of ordinary concrete and landlocked by a sea of asphalt comprised by layers of sticky paste from long dead plants and animals and aggregate, against all our pitiful efforts, two spars little sprigs of green, reminding me to remember nature has the long view. How irrelevant we are.

Damn Protestant work ethic!

I don't know why it is I take performance of a corporate entity so personally. It is not healthy, I feel that, but at the end of the day, I feel guilty and they call that ownership. But ownership comes with control and a return on your investment. Does the old ethic even apply when you are a salary stooge? With no control of my corporate destiny beyond that which a rat exerts over an oceanliner?

Or perhaps it was just a hard day.

January 2

So despite the arbitrary calendar date selected to signify a point of reflection, it is, and therefore one does. December is gone, good or bad, and with a year behind that seems incredible when I think on it, and sadly left unfinished, when I count all of the things that I did not do, or see, or taste, etc. 

I find myself for the first time in my life, overwhelmed, with the number of wonderful, caring, and loving individuals who, inexplicably, find me fascinating or interesting enough to be desirous in their company. I find this amazing. For some time now I have been of the mind that I was not an easy person to get along, which I do not find reason to dispute, which means that either humanity has become more tolerant, I have become more adroit at finding tolerant or at least likewise belligerent people, or I have made some successes in honing my behaviors to be less offensive. I would like to believe all three of these things are true. Suffice to say, that regardless of the reason behind this sudden up swell in friends, I consider myself to be very lucky.

The year was a good one for travel [Tuscon, Coachella, London, Paris, Stonehenge, Caerphilly] for projects [Tardis, writing, etc] for people, and by extension inspiration. I find myself so energized by all of these things that it should probably not be surprising that I have (despite December's distractions, amiable as they may be) have recommenced writing on this January evening. I find myself hesitant to label myself as always, but author, or perhaps creator is a title or descriptor I am becoming more comfortable with. 

To this I owe much thanks to some of these wonderful people who have enhanced my happiness in the last year. I consider myself to be very lucky to possess such a smattering of diverse personalities and differentiated strengths to lean against, and perhaps most of all to be living in an age where digital forms of communication allow me to balance time with people and remain connected despite my hermitty habits.  I will never tire of saying "Thank god for Google Calendar" and then be instantly amused by where I put the capitalization. 

It has also been an exceptional year for music, and I think back to the bewilderment I once had sitting in a certain English class at the wild and sometimes incomprehensible passion a certain teacher had for such a myriad of musical selections. Sometimes it takes a strong personality playing "This monkey has gone to heaven" for 2 hours until you just get it. I think that there is a lesson there that I have never forgotten, and only part of it is the magic that music has. Genuine magic.

It was also a tragic year in some ways, with a dear friend lost, but with valuable lessons there as well. I learned to never stop doing what you love, and not to waste breath on unhappiness; I will perhaps spend a lifetime trying to practice those learnings. I am comforted by the nonlinear nature of time, which perhaps is the best comfort, and also most macabre concept. All time exists at once, only our perception changes. All those wonderful times are still there, (as a the bad ones), and worse yet, all the things to come exist already. You are alive, and dead, like Schrodinger's poor feline, and ours is but to try to be more like the Tralfamadorians of slaughterhouse 5, and think mostly on the good times. For that at least I am well equipped, because there are a lot of good times.